Anonymous asked: A EX should stay an EX. They're the EXample of false love and an EXplanation for why you deserve better.

I’ve thought about that theory for a long time, and I’ve come to realize that everyone’s human. We all fuck up at some point in our lives, and we can’t change what has happened. 

Some people wonder why they can never stay in a successful relationship, and it’s because people are always trying to find someone “better,” which is kind of ridiculous because NO ONE is perfect, and you can’t expect your partner to be perfect. We learn and we grow from our mistakes. You can’t just shun someone away because they don’t pass in that stupid list of, “What I Want In A Man” type of shit. You’re relationship will NEVER grow if you’re ALWAYS just looking for all the positive qualities in someone. You just can’t.

Love is love, it’s really simple.

I know that I might sound stupid for forgiving someone who cheated on me, but it’s my decision. I might get hurt along the way, but that’s part of life.